When a guy shows a lot of interest in other woman, and he is willing to initiate in various ways, but not with you—that's not a good sign.

First and foremost, men are always going to look at attractive women no matter how much they love their partner. Okay? There are some brief phases that guys go through where they've only got eyes for their partner, but even with those loving man this wears off. Pretty things catch our attention.

Now, there's a big difference between a guy that goes “Oh, she's hot”, and then comes back to focus on you, and the guy that is drooling on the floor right in front of you, won't look away, and seems obsessed, right? There's a spectrum of behaviour here, and they're all quite different.

To be really stereotypical: as a woman, you might have a closet full of shoes, but you're still going to check out good looking shoes in the shop, right? You're still going to do that. It doesn't mean that you don't like your shoes at home.

To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here:

https://youtu.be/uu15MbTrQsE

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