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Too Nice: Is People Pleasing a Mental Illness?

New full length video out today!

Most people think being "nice" is a good thing—but what if it's actually ruining your life? After over a decade of coaching Nice Guys and people-pleasers, I’ve come to a harsh realization: Nice Guy Syndrome is a serious mental illness.

People-pleasers aren’t just kind, generous individuals—they struggle with chronic anxiety, dishonesty, resentment, and burnout. They manipulate for approval, suppress their real thoughts, and avoid confrontation at all costs. And worst of all? Their so-called "kindness" often hurts both themselves and those around them.

This video breaks down:
✅ Why Nice Guys are secretly manipulative and dishonest
✅ How people-pleasing leads to anxiety, loneliness, and resentment
✅ The massive difference between being "nice" and being genuinely kind
✅ How to break free from the need for approval and live with integrity

🚀 Watch until the end to learn how to escape the Nice Guy trap and finally be respected for who you truly are!

👇 Comment below: Do you recognize any of these Nice Guy traits in yourself? What’s been your biggest struggle with people-pleasing?

Watch the video here:

https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/too-nice-is-people-pleasing-a-mental-illness/

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