If you want to be confident, stop having double standards.
Stop telling yourself that you're a good person for doing it, because you're not
You must not have double standards.
You cannot treat people better than you treat yourself.
You cannot treat people in a way that you wouldn't want them to treat you.
Everything must be equal.
If you find yourself being really nice to people all the time, but you would resist if they did that to you—then you have to stop doing it.
If you find that you treat people with kindness, but you're mean to yourself—you have to start treating yourself with kindness as well.
You cannot have double standards.
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