While I get a lot people seeking help with fear of rejection and dating skills etc., I've come to realise that the REAL problem people have is actually about allowing others to get close. People with avoidant attachment styles and low self worth often struggle to allow intimacy to occur, and actively or subsconsiously sabotage friendships and relationships. We're told you need to love yourself before other people can love you, but maybe there's a quicker path to healthy relationships!