One guy sent through this question: “How do I stop being manipulative?”

There's actually quite a lot of work that goes into reducing your manipulation. However, there is one thing that you can focus on and it's a specific type of honesty. I call it revealing the strategy.

Now, being much more honest, transparent and vulnerable is the way to stop being manipulative. If you tell people what you're actually thinking and feeling it's very hard for you to then manipulate them.

One particular type of honesty, revealing the strategy, is where you actually tell them that you're trying to manipulate them.

As you work on being more honest, you're going to slip and relapse and you're going to have all these old patterns and habits. It's going to take you a long time to even see how it is exactly that you manipulate people. However, whenever you catch it happening, you can just tell people that it's happening.

You can say things like: “I just said that to try and influence you.”

By revealing your strategy, people are able to prevent themselves from being manipulated.

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